Coming come to myself

Today's reflection card is actually a good one. It's from the Self-Care + Wellness deck, and it asks:

"What would it take for you to feel completely comfortable in your own skin?"

For me, I think it starts with taking the time to really get to know myself. Learning what gives me energy, what makes me feel tired, what brings me joy, and what helps me feel my best. Whether that's working out, spending time creating, or simply slowing down and listening to what I need, every little moment helps me understand myself a little more.

But something I've learned over the past few years is that feeling comfortable in your own skin doesn't usually happen all at once. It happens quietly. One day you look back and realize you've been laughing more, worrying less, and showing up as yourself without thinking about it.

Maybe becoming comfortable in your own skin isn't about changing who you are. Maybe it's about giving yourself enough time, grace, and love to discover who you've been all along. 🤍

Tiny Action: Spend five minutes today doing something that makes you feel like you. Maybe it's listening to your favorite song, going for a walk, journaling, or making your favorite drink.

Affirmation: I don't have to become someone else to feel comfortable in my own skin. I'm learning to love the person I already am.

Self Love

When we think of self love what's the first thing that. come to your mind?

For me I would say treating yourself with respect I am still learning how to do that because I am not kind to myself. For example I was looking at my photo for photography class

I started criticizing myself.

My arms look huge, my face look weird in the photo ect.

I recognized something when I was saying stuff like that to myself. I realized I am talking to the little girl in me

She should not have to hear all these things

She deserves to be called beautiful, amazing and kind

She would have been so proud of how far we have come

Okay so here is what to do if you aren't feeling good about yourself

1) Talk to yourself the way you would talk to your younger self would you call her ugly? would you tear her down? or remind her that she amazing, beautiful, strong and enough?

Now tell yourself the same thing 🤍

Make sure you guys be gentle with yourself, you and your younger self deserve the same

kind of love.

I'd love for you to share in the "Write Your Story" Selection

Which part of your mental or physical health have you been ignoring the longest?

What If Fear Wasn’t in the Way?

Okay, serious question, besties: if fear wasn’t in the way… (okay, let’s be real, a little nervousness is fine 😅), but if fear was limited, what would you do?

For me? I’d be an actress, singer, influencer, and podcaster.

I’ve always loved acting. There’s something magical about stepping into someone else’s shoes, telling their story, and feeling every emotion as if it were your own. But I used to be so scared to go on stage. My heart would race, my hands would shake, and I’d second-guess myself at every turn. Still, there was always that little spark—an excitement I couldn’t ignore.

Singing? OMG, I’ve always loved it. I’d sing in my room, in the shower, anywhere I could. But one day someone told me I was tone-deaf, and I quit. Looking back… I wish I hadn’t. Because even if I wasn’t perfect, singing made me feel alive, free, and completely me.

And influencing? Honestly, I didn’t even know I loved it until I started making TikTok videos. I remember the first time I posted a video and felt my heart flutter with excitement, not fear. It was like discovering a new part of myself—a part that loves to create, share, and connect.

So here’s the truth: fear is real, and it can feel huge. But what if we let ourselves step past it, even just a little? I’m choosing to do it scared. I’m choosing to chase the things that light me up, even if my heart races, even if I stumble. Because the things that scare us the most are often the things that make us feel the most alive.

And maybe this is your sign too—whatever dream is tucked away in your heart, whatever idea keeps whispering to you at night, try it. Just start. Do it scared. Because the world needs your light, your voice, your story. And you deserve to shine. ✨💛